Stay at home Dad's and names of church groups.

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     Well good Morning!  Today I just want to say what's on my mind and then move on.  Why is it that many different church get togethers for toddlers or children always say Mom and Tot, or something similar.  Do the churches now think that it is wrong for a Dad to stay home with his children?  I wonder this as I consider going to such an event today.  Will I be looked at strangely since I am obviously not a Mom but I have a tot?  I guess the old addage of try it and see can't fail today.
   My wish today is that any church would be accepting of any parent who chooses to stay home to help raise their own children, and not look down upon those who happen to have the xy chromosome pair instead of the typical xx pairing.